How to text a girl!

A lot of you fret, while looking at the phone, “What do I text a girl??”

Should I act cool, aloof, funny? The way you should act should play on your strengths in daily life. I should not be fostered or faked. With that said there are a lot of little things that you could be doing to greatly enhance you success when texting girls.

Texting and the Power of silence

Silence is a tool that I can’t stress enough, its so incredibly powerful. The problem is that most people have NO IDEA how to use it. Actually it is very simple, all you have to do is put yourself a little bit out of your comfort zone and simply not respond to her text. I especially do this if what she said was a little bit questionable. So much of attraction is the illusion of power. Controlling the pace of your text interaction is not only maddening for a lot women but out outrageously empowering for you.

Anna: Hey Mike, what you up 2?

Me: (10 minute pause) Working on something

Anna: Oh… So did you hear about Jen?

Me: (20 minute pause) No, but I suppose you are going to tell me.

Anna: Jeeze who forgot to take their midol?!

Me: No response…

Anna: What is your problem?

Me: Anna, I would love to chat but I need to work

Anna: Sorry

OUCH!! poor Anna got spanked! But if you saw this girl you would be sorely tempted as well. Anna is bothering me and not getting the hint. I make it clear by pausing with my responses and at one point not responding at all. Sure I was a bit of a shit but I made her wait, I forced her to my pace and eventually she apologized in order to seek my approval.

You see, a lot of guys think that the way to a girls heart is through romance flowers and apology. This however couldn’t be further from the truth, the greatest aphrodisiac you will ever find is one of power. The man that can radiate power is the one that gets the girl. This is why the dick gets the chick, they radiate a dangerous power. You can do the same without wanting to commit suicide or wear leather. All you have to do is be powerful and hard to please. Texting is an excellent way to communicate this.

Using Cocky funny when texting a girl

Cocky funny is a still valuable left over from the PUA days of David DeAngelo. I am not a Pick Up Artist advocate because I believe a lot of the tactics are harmful to women and more so, the men that use them. Cocky Funny though, is an excellent way to text a woman as long as you remember that you don’t have to be cruel in order to create attention. Cocky funny is more about being witty and busting on something that is relatively innocent. It also incorporates a refusal to apologize for who you are. Something that communicates confidence more powerfully than arriving in a Ferrari (Well, maybe)

Jen: I miss you, when are you heading out here again?

Me: Hmmm… I don’t know, will you make me dinner, wash my feet and worship the ground I walk on?

Jen: Jeez, you wish. I might wash the floor with bleach after you walk on it!

Me: Well at least the worship me, part is still a contender

Jen: I know you full of yourself but worshiping doesn’t come to mind

Me: Well after you beg to sleep with me I am confident the worshiping will come after

Jen: LMAO!!! ROTF!!! In your dreams!

Me: Umm… I do recall quite a bit of screaming and worshiping last weekend

Jen: Shut it!!!

Me: Do I need to remind you? I have a transcript but a few words I didn’t know how to spell, like “ahhhauouhhhhhmmm….”

Jen: Didn’t I tell you to shut it!!!

HAHAHA!! I won this interaction big time. I was funny and very very cocky. I didn’t make fun of her I only played and pulled out my ace in the last little bit. Jen didn’t do to badly but eventually I slapped the sword out of her hand and she wants me even more. The stage is set for more fun and a whole lot more attraction.

This is something that most guys just don’t get. Wit = Intelligence = Attraction = lots O sex

Do you want to learn more about how to text a girl? Or what to text a girl? I talk more about it on my blog post What to text a girl – a few tips to create attraction. I also wrote an ebook on the subject that was recently published on Amazon, The book, The Art of Texting is also available on my information rich website.

Mike Masters is a dating blogger and advice guru at MiketheMasterDater.com